Legal & safety
This community is for friendly, legal mail only. Stalking, harassment, doxxing, and illegal shipments are banned — and we will act.
Zero tolerance. If you stalk members, share addresses outside this community, harass someone after a block, or send illegal mail, you will lose access — and we will pursue the matter as far as the law allows, including reporting to authorities when appropriate.
What is not allowed
- Illegal drugs, controlled substances, or drug paraphernalia
- Weapons, explosives, or anything banned by postal / customs rules
- Threats, blackmail, fraud, scams, or impersonation
- Child sexual abuse material or any sexual content involving minors — zero tolerance
- Stalking, doxxing, or sharing someone’s address outside this community
- Using Dating to contact anyone under 18, or lying about age to enter Dating
- Harassment after a block, unwanted contact, or using mail to intimidate
- Hate speech, violent content, or anything that would get mail refused or reported
What the admin team will do
Richard & Megan run this community. When someone breaks the law or these rules in a serious way, we do not look the other way.
- Immediate account suspension or permanent ban for serious or repeated violations
- Removal of posts, gallery items, and swap privileges while we review
- Reports from members are reviewed by Richard & Megan (the admin team)
- We preserve relevant account and report records when needed for investigations
- We will cooperate with law enforcement and report crimes when required or appropriate
- Victims are encouraged to also contact local police / postal inspectors for illegal mail or stalking
Age & consent
- You must be at least 13 to create an account. We do not knowingly collect accounts from children under 13.
- Members ages 13–17 need a parent or legal guardian's name, email, and consent recorded at signup. Hosts keep that record for safety and compliance.
- False age claims are grounds for immediate removal. Hosts may ask for additional verification if something looks wrong.
- Dating is optional and 18+ only. It is isolated from the mixed-age swap directory. Teens never appear in Dating listings. A dating “hello” does not share street address. Using Dating to contact a minor, or lying about age to enter it, is grounds for immediate removal and may be reported.
- Artists corner shop listings are 18+ only. Hosts do not sell, take payment, or ship art. Trades and purchases are between members and the artist's own shop. Stolen work, NSFW, or listings aimed at minors will be removed.
- Joining means you accept the community disclaimer: hosts provide the platform and rules, but are not responsible for what members mail, say, or do offline.
Tools for members
- Block a member so you stop seeing each other in the directory, Dating, and can’t swap
- Report a member from their profile — only admins see the report
- Keep address visibility on swap partners (or tighter) until you trust someone
- Never mail anything you’d be ashamed to explain to a postal inspector
Report suspicious or illegal activity on a member's profile, or email [email protected]. If you are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services first.