Mail programs
Mystery Mail
A surprise package — within the house rules.
Mystery Mail is a themed surprise: your partner doesn’t know every item ahead of time, but everything must still be legal, wholesome, and safe to send through the post. Surprises are fun; illegal or harmful content is not.
Fun mystery ideas
- A theme (animals, coffee, seasons, stationery) agreed in the swap message
- A small sealed pack of stickers or samples they haven’t seen yet
- A “grab bag” of extras that still follows mail and community rules
- Optional: list “do not send” preferences in your profile looking-for field
Hard limits (non‑negotiable)
- No illegal substances, weapons, threats, or anything banned by postal rules
- No adult / NSFW content — this is a mixed-age family community
- No perishable food that can spoil or attract pests unless both agree and it’s legal to mail
- Respect “do not send” notes and blocks — silence after a block is required
How to join in
- Agree on a theme and any limits in the swap request message.
- Use the Mystery Mail forum to pair up or share packing tips.
- Never include prohibited items — mystery does not mean “anything goes.”
- Ship, track with “I mailed it,” and celebrate when it arrives.