Set up your profile the right way

Bio, interests, languages, privacy, programs, socials, and do-not-send.

Profile setup — a short hello from Richard & Megan while tutorial clips are filmed.

  • Interest tags — washi, vintage, frogs, etc. so the directory can match you
  • Languages I write in — English, Spanish, etc. so international partners know they can read your notes
  • Bio & looking-for — helps partners pick themes you’ll love
  • Address privacy — street for partners (default), all members, or city only
  • Email privacy — hidden by default; optional share with partners or everyone
  • Mail programs — mark Happy Mail and/or Mystery Mail if you’re open
  • Where I’ll mail — anywhere, or same country only (blocks cross-border requests)
  • Envelope I pack — letter/flat, bubble mailer, small box, or flexible
  • How soon I usually mail — 3 days, a week, 2 weeks, or flexible
  • Welcome wagon — get an alert when someone new joins so you can say hello
  • Packing this week — optional stamp while you’re assembling mail (through a date you pick); people who favorited you get an alert
  • Icebreakers — loves to send, mail smile, fun fact. Partners can tap them into a swap request
  • Artists corner — optional blurb and (18+) shop link for original art
  • Do not send — list allergens, themes, or items you never want
  • Social links — Instagram, Discord, etc. (optional)